If you are looking to get married and the same repetitive prompts, endless swiping and awkward singles’ mixers are getting you nowhere, maybe it’s a sign to resort to some old school ways of finding love. Before the digital age of finding love, matches were typically made by a matchmaker (read: a distant relative who introduced you to your “perfect match”). One such matchmaker—Preeti Aunty—was an important character in Shiv Arora and Ridhi Kapur’s story.. The set up took place through the couple’s grandmothers—Kapur’s paternal grandmother and Arora’s maternal grandmother—both knowing Preeti Aunty. This is how the two business owners—Arora with an insurance firm and Kapur with a fashion brand—found themselves on their first coffee date. The duo was on very different pages about this date. While Kapur almost didn’t show up—but ultimately gave in to family pressure—Arora showed up ready to impress, early and in new shoes. Meant to last just 30 minutes, this date went on for over seven hours. And the rest, as they say, is history.. After dating for a year or so, the couple was engaged. Arora planned a romantic proposal for Kapur, his (then) girlfriend, in Goa, surprising her by flying in their family and friends so that they, too, could be a part of their celebration. Their Delhi wedding took place a few months later at Zorba.. There were three events in all: a mehendi, a cocktail night and the wedding. The bride’s mehendi was intimate, an invitation extended only to her closest family and friends. This was her most personal look and when asked about it, Kapur, who has her own clothing brand, says, “Designing at least one of my own outfits felt non-negotiable to me.”. A focus of Kapur’s brand, Clothes On My Mind, is denim wear. For her mehendi, she stuck to her design language, giving it a bridal spin in traditional and seasonally appropriate ways. Designed for a winter celebration, the bride looked radiant in a layered velvet and denim sharara—of her own making—complete with rich zardozi embroidery. Another highlight of this look was a custom scarf. “I designed it as a tribute to my people, featuring the names of all my loved ones, embroidered in zardozi,” recalls Kapur. It began with the names of the grandmothers and included the names of her team as well. “Wearing it was such a joyful experience, I found myself going up to people, watching them search for their names, and sharing that excitement with them,” says Kapur.. At the cocktail-cum-sangeet evening, singer and performer Stebin Ben kept the crowd on their feet for hours, making sure they danced the night away. The groom was dressed in a Manish Malhotra outfit, and the bride wore a vibrant pink Dabiri lehenga with playful mirror work.. In customary big-fat-Indian-wedding fashion, dance played a big role in the couple’s celebrations. With help from The YellowStripe Dance Co., family and friends performed with and for the bride and groom,