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‘I sank like a rock’: Lara Dutta recalls near-fatal shoot with Akshay Kumar that gave her a crippling phobia until age 30; expert on dealing with lingering trauma

 ​Lara Dutta recounts her terrifying near-drowning incident and how Akshay Kumar saved her (Source: PH Photo via Express Archives). Unexpected, life-threatening experiences can leave a lasting psychological imprint, especially when they occur suddenly and without preparation. Actor Lara Dutta recently revisited one such experience from early in her career, when a routine shoot turned dangerous. During a sequence filmed in the ocean with co-star Akshay Kumar for the 2003 film Andaaz, a sudden wave pulled them underwater, and she did not know how to swim.. Recalling the moment during a conversation with Asian Television Network Canada, she said, “I went underwater, wearing leather, didn’t know how to swim, sank like a rock,” highlighting just how vulnerable she was in that situation. She was eventually brought back to safety by Kumar, but the incident resulted in hypothermic shock and required immediate medical attention.. What followed is equally telling. The experience left behind a deep fear of water, something many people can relate to after a traumatic event. Years later, when Kumar encouraged her to take on a role in the film Blue that required underwater work, her instinct was to refuse. Reflecting on that moment, she shared, “At 30, he asked me to learn diving. I said mai hi pagal mili hu (I’m the only mad one here),” capturing both the hesitation and disbelief that often accompany being asked to face a fear head-on. Despite this, she went on to learn to swim and gradually overcame the fear the earlier incident had created.. Her experience highlights how people process fear, trauma, and recovery differently, and raises broader questions about resilience, exposure, and emotional healing after distressing events.. After a highly distressing experience, what kind of psychological responses are most common?. Sonal Khangarot, licensed rehabilitation counsellor and psychotherapist, The Answer Room, tells indianexpress.com, “After a near-death or highly distressing experience, individuals commonly show acute stress responses such as hypervigilance, intrusive memories, sleep disturbance, emotional numbness, and heightened startle reactions. Drawing from The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk, trauma is not only remembered cognitively but stored in the body, often surfacing through somatic symptoms like tension, fatigue, or unexplained pain. People may also experience dissociation, where they feel detached from themselves or reality as a protective mechanism.”. She continues, “Insights from How We Die by Sherwin B. Nuland highlight how proximity to death can disrupt one’s sense of control and existential stability, leading to anxiety or existential questioning. Lingering trauma can be recognised when these responses persist, impair functioning, or create a chronic sense of unsafety.”. Is confronting a fear an effective way to heal?. Confronting a fear linked to a past traumatic experience can be therapeutic, but only whe  

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‘If it has three bumps…’: Nauheed Cyrusi reveals secret to picking the right capsicum

 ​Nauheed Cyrusi explains the distinction between three-bumped and four-bumped capsicums (Images: Nauheed Cyrusi Instagram/Unsplash). Nauheed Cyrusi continues delighting fans with eccentric food hacks, recipes, and more. Recently, the actress from Anwar shared a tip she just learned for picking the perfect capsicum. “I was today years old when I learnt that a capsicum with four bumps tastes sweeter and is great for salads, while those with three bumps are less sweet and better for cooking.” Inspired by the kitchen hack, we consulted nutritionist Ashlesha Joshi, Fitness Dietician and Nutritionist at Tone 30 Pilates, to gain a complete understanding of the culinary science behind capsicums. DISCLAIMER: This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. Always check with your health practitioner before beginning any routine. Four Bumps vs. Three Bumps: What’s the Difference? Joshi states, “The sweetness of capsicum depends on its natural sugar levels and ripeness, rather than solely the number of bumps.” Yet four-lobed capsicums tend to be sweeter for a specific reason. They often grow slightly thicker walls and higher sugar levels, in part due to greater sunlight exposure while developing.  

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Top 5 places in India for the best chance of spotting a leopard

 ​India hosts the Indian leopard, among the planet’s most versatile big cats, flourishing in varied forests, grasslands, and rugged landscapes. While found across the country, their elusive, mostly nocturnal habits make sightings delightfully unpredictable. That said, specific protected zones and habitats have gained fame for reliable leopard encounters, owing to ideal environments and dedicated conservation work. Here are five popular Indian destinations for leopard safaris among wildlife lovers. 1. The Leopard Hills of Jawai. Jawai, situated in southern Rajasthan, has recently drawn notice for its leopards that dwell in the area’s granite hills and caves. Jawai stands out from most forest reserves as a landscape where wildlife and local communities live harmoniously together. Leopards in this area are frequently seen lounging on rocky outcrops or traversing the hills on early morning and evening safaris. The region also features sightings of birds, crocodiles around Jawai Dam, and various smaller mammals. 2. Bera.  

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‘I am used to being excellent at everything’: Varun Dhawan opens up about dad guilt, feeling ‘second’ as a parent

 ​Varun Dhawan recently discussed “dad guilt,” stating, “Honestly, being a girl dad also involves responsibility.” I’m in that responsible phase because my child is dealing with something. I’m fully aware that I need to be there. My wife supports me through everything… and that’s hard to measure up against. I’m accustomed to excelling at everything… But here, my wife comes first and I’m second, which I hate—I want to be number one in this too. … I’m experiencing a ton of dad guilt—even right now, just sitting here, I feel so much guilt. His comments on the We The Yuvaa podcast underscore an emerging yet frequently unvoiced emotional truth experienced by numerous men. Dr. Munia Bhattacharya states that this guilt is deeply personal yet influenced by wider societal expectations. When fathers feel “second.”  

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‘I’m in my mid-30s and worried I’m hitting perimenopause’: Can it really start this early?

 ​I’m in my mid-30s and concerned that I might be entering perimenopause. Has anyone gone through perimenopause during their 30s? A Quora user’s question highlights the increasing worry among many women experiencing unexplained hormonal symptoms sooner than anticipated. Perimenopause, the transition phase leading to menopause, is usually linked to women in their 40s. However, doctors note that hormonal changes can sometimes start earlier, potentially causing confusion over whether symptoms stem from perimenopause or other health conditions. Dr. Gandhali Deorukhkar, a Mumbai-based gynaecologist-obstetrician affiliated with several top hospitals, explains that while early symptoms can occur, they aren’t necessarily due to perimenopause. “Perimenopause typically starts in one’s early to mid-40s,” says Dr. Deorukhkar. Nevertheless, certain women might experience hormonal changes during their late 30s. In uncommon cases, symptoms may emerge even sooner. DISCLAIMER: This article draws from publicly available information and/or insights from experts we consulted.  

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Bryan Johnson’s 14% hack: Experts reveal if frequent squats are more effective than a 30-minute walk

 ​Bryan Johnson compares squats and walking. (Origin: Instagram/@bryanjohnson_). Bryan Johnson thinks doing 10 squats every 45 minutes is a much superior health hack compared to a basic 30-minute walk around the block. In his latest Instagram post, he claimed that doing 10 squats every 45 minutes after meals outperforms a 30-minute walk by 14% for blood sugar control. Do medical professionals concur? Indianexpress.com consulted health experts and discovered.. DISCLAIMER: This article draws from publicly available information and/or insights from the experts interviewed. Always check with your fitness professional before beginning any exercise program. Dr. Manisha Arora, director of internal medicine at CK Birla Hospital in Delhi, noted that although walking offers numerous advantages for heart health and lowering chronic disease risks, breaking up extended periods of sitting with quick activity bursts—like 10 squats every 45 minutes—can provide tremendous health benefits. Walk vs. Squat: Which is better? She says that even short bouts of activity can help counteract the negative impacts of sedentary behavior, especially on glucose metabolism.  

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