ByJo Currie and Daniel Austin, BBC Sport senior journalists6 hours agoThis post contains discussion about suicide. “A cheeky chappie – the Del Boy in football. Matt is believed to have committed suicide, although an inquest has not yet been concluded. Tributes poured in from players he had coached, rivals his teams had faced along the way, and fans who were charmed by his playful, down-to-earth persona. Matt is believed to be the victim of suicide, but an inquest has not yet been completed. Tributes poured from players he coached, rivals he faced and fans who were charmed with his playful, down to earth persona. Managers shouldn’t need to ask for help. Debbie describes Matt’s death as “just normal”. He had taken the family dog on a long walk the day before. “We never would have predicted that – not even in a million lifetimes.” I wish he would have said, “I’m struggling”. “Debbie knew that her husband had faced emotional difficulties before, including after the death of his dad in 2022, but said he would continue working and behave as usual. She feels Matt’s passing should be a catalyst for a change in how mental health is monitored by football managers. Debbie says, “I’d like to see a shift – proper mental health tests for managers.” “They are under such high stakes pressure, it should be a part of regular monitoring.” “There should be designated safe spaces where managers can go to talk with someone and unload. No questions asked, it should be mandatory for someone to check in with them once a week. “There’s a lot of emphasis on strength and fitness in football but they are the ones who have to speak up for mental health, which is not right. The League Managers’ Association runs a range of initiatives to help football managers manage their mental health. These include confidential counselling with psychiatrists, access to health insurance, and mental education workshops. “We will continue to work with the game, its stakeholders and to address mental illness in a more collaborative and unified way. “Image source, Beard Family’Managers never look after themselves’Matt managed West Ham to the 2019 FA Cup Final. He also managed Millwall, Chelsea, Boston Breakers and other teams in the USA. Mark told BBC Sport that he wished Matt knew how much he loved him in his final moments. He probably thought the world was against he, but it was not. “He sent me text that night, saying: ‘I Love more than you’ll Ever Know, Mate.’ I replied with ‘I love more-r’. I stayed up all night singing Millwall songs to him. All the family members were able to say goodbye. “Image source, Beard familyMark recalls his brother as a leader who was deeply connected to his players and whose loving personality reflected his leadership at home. Mark says, “He always had love for the players.” “That’s what makes Matt different from other managers. “Whatever his tactics, his teams were exciting to watch. And the girls would give their all for him. “As a coach, you are responsible for all the staff, and about 20 players. You never have time to take care of yourself. “We all think we are superhuman but deep down you know when you are struggling. I hope there isn’t another death. “‘Matt was averse to bad news’Matt’s family claim that he struggled to emotionally disconnect from football and that negative comments made on social media began to affect his mental health. According to Debbie, he found it difficult to break bad news to players regarding their place in the team or future plans. “Matt felt bad about letting someone down,” she says. “There were tears, shouts, and sometimes negative comments from the players’ families and fans. “He would make decisions with other staff members, but because he was the one who had to deliver the bad news, all the emotional burden fell on him. “Matt loved to be there for everyone and he hated to let people down. He was always looking out for others, but not himself. Matt’s family claim he was not happy with how the club was run. Burnley reportedly turned down a bid from Leicester City to buy out Matt’s remaining contract. According to BBC Sport, Matt resigned and the move to Leicester never happened. Matt resigned but the move to Leicester did not happen. Burnley placed Matt on gardening leaves, which meant he could not work or speak to other clubs for three months. Debbie claimed that Burnley “bullied Matt” in a pre-inquest hearing review last week. The inquest has been adjourned until further notice. Burnley stated that they are “aware of a legal process in progress and will not make any comments at this time”. Debbie believes Matt’s mental state deteriorated during the time he was unable work. Debbie says that Matt was not allowed to say goodbye to the players he coached or explain why he had left. “That had an enormous impact on him. “He was having a hard time, [worrying] about how he could provide for his family. I had to work three jobs to make ends meet. “I think he was feeling like a failure. “Image source, Beard Family’There should more love for managers. Harry recalls that Matt was always singing and cooking in the kitchen. He also made roast dinners. “It’s only when something happens, that all of this love comes out. But it should have happened way before.” You don’t see people congratulating managers for a win. It’s ridiculous, because when they lose, they are beaten online. There should be more love out there for managers. “If you are affected by any of the issues raised in this story, support and advice is available via BBC Action Line.Related topicsWomen’s FootballFootballWomen’s Super League