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Chef Sanjeev Kapoor says poha causes major blood sugar spikes: If rice is bad, it is worse
3 min readNew DelhiMay 19, 2026 09:30 AM IST
Chef Sanjeev Koor recently spoke about poha, noting that it is not a healthy breakfast option. Poha is a comfort food. But it is not healthy. If rice was bad, poha is even worse. If you want to see your sugar spike, then eat poha for breakfast. The spike will be (gestures up), he told ANI in its podcast.
But is it true?
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Dr Vijay Negalur, HoD of diabetology at KIMS Hospitals, Thane, called it a bit of an oversimplification. Poha is made from flattened rice, so yes, it is a refined carbohydrate and can raise blood sugar levels, especially when eaten in large portions or on its own. But calling it ‘worse’ than rice misses the full picture. The impact of any food on blood sugar depends not just on the ingredient, but also on portion size, how it’s prepared, and what it is paired with. A plain, large serving of poha can cause a quicker spike, but that can be managed, said Dr Negalur.
Poha is relatively low in fibre and protein. These nutrients usually help slow down glucose absorption. Because it is processed and flattened, it gets digested faster, which leads to a quicker rise in blood sugar levels. This is similar to other refined grain-based foods. However, the effect varies from person to person, depending on metabolism and what else is in the meal.
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Does this mean people with diabetes should avoid poha completely?
Not necessarily. Foods like poha don’t have to be eliminated; they just need to be eaten more thoughtfully. Portion control is key, and it helps to avoid eating it on its own. Combining poha with protein sources like peanuts, sprouts, or curd, and adding vegetables can make the meal more balanced and reduce sudden spikes in blood sugar, said Dr Negalur.
Yes, small changes can make a big difference. Adding fibre-rich vegetables such as peas, carrots, or csicum, and including a source of healthy fat or protein can slow digestion. Choosing a moderate portion and avoiding sugary drinks also helps. Even simple habits like eating slowly can affect how the body handles glucose.
What to note?
Rather than labeling foods as good or bad, it’s more practical to focus on overall eating habits. Balanced meals, portion awareness, and consistency matter much more. Occasional spikes are less concerning than long-term patterns. The goal should be sustainable eating in a way that keeps blood sugar stable without making the diet overly restrictive.
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Not spending is a waste of earnings: The money war between Indian parents and Gen Z
Priyadarshi Kumar was 22 and fresh out of IIT Kharagpur when he told his father he wanted to buy an iPhone worth Rs 80,000.
This is not an argument about an iPhone. It is a collision between two entirely different ms of what a good life looks like.
A different economic inheritance
The g is real, say those who watch money behaviour professionally. But it is more complicated than the headlines suggest.
Traditionally, financial stability for many Indian parents involved early home ownership, stable employment, no debt, and gradually building savings over many years, says Rohit Mahajan, founder and CEO of plutos ONE. Gen Z is now defining success with broader parameters – flexibility, experience, mental health, work-life balance, and independence rather than only property ownership.
Crucially, Mahajan adds, They are not necessarily being irresponsible financially; rather, they are defining their aspirations very differently with the current economic and social climate.
That climate looks fundamentally different from the one their parents navigated. Adhil Shetty, CEO of BankBazaar, notes, Career paths are less linear, income sources more varied, and the financial products available to a 25-year-old today are more sophisticated than anything their parents had at 45. He notes that investors under 30 now represent 40 per cent of NSE-registered investors, up from 23 per cent in FY19. That isn’t a generation avoiding responsibility but one that is engaging with money earlier than any before it.
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Shivam Kumar, a 26-year-old software engineer at Nutanix, embodies this duality. He has both a bank account and a demat account, thinks in terms of inflation-beating investments, and yet also believes that not spending money is a waste of earnings. The inheritance from his parents was solid, with the motto: ‘save diligently, avoid frivolity,’ but he has rewritten the terms. The toy bank with the guard dog is gone. The philosophy of security remains; its definition has expanded.
Role of social media
Into this generational negotiation walks an uninvited third party: the algorithm.
Constant exposure to curated success, be it luxury travel, premium gadgets, or aspirational careers, is reshing the internal calculus young Indians use to measure themselves. Shivam Kumar mentions, The idea of ‘Sharma ji ka ladka’ has become omnipresent. There is always someone excelling in every possible field, travelling more, earning more, or living a seemingly perfect life online.
Constant exposure to curated success, be it luxury travel, premium gadgets, or aspirational careers, is reshing the internal calculus young Indians use to measure themselves. (
The response, he observes, is often performative spending – concerts, branded goods, travel – as a way of signalling success, even if they come at the cost of long-term financial stability.
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Priyadarshi Kumar offers an example: social media led him to spend Rs 1,700 on a book simply because a podcaster he followed was reading it. The purchase was not irrational, but it was entirely socially mediated.
Finance experts acknowledge both sides of this equation.
Financial content online has brought investing vocabulary and basic money habits to people who never had access to a financial advisor, a well-informed family member, or even a branch in their town, says Adhil Shetty. For a first-generation investor, a well-made video explaining SIPs or credit scores can be the nudge that changes the entire trajectory of how they handle money. But, he cautions, the line between inspiration and instruction has never been thinner – or more consequential. Much of what circulates online may not clear the bar for sound advice, and aspirational content rarely shows the debt sitting behind the story.
Vishal Bhati, founder of Credit4Sure, a product by Mahavira Finlease Limited, frames the dual nature succinctly, saying, The influence of social media on finance can lead to both overspending and financial literacy.
The psychological impact
Money rarely stays in the realm of pure numbers, says Puja Roy, health psychologist (Gold Medalist) and art therist at The Empathy Couch. It tends to carry meaning, safety, sacrifice, love, responsibility, and even identity. What may look like an argument about spending or career choices is often about something deeper – tension around dependence, autonomy, or feeling valued.
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The generational difference in how success is defined, Roy explains, usually reflects different life experiences rather than different values. Parents who lived through financial uncertainty may associate stability with survival itself, while younger adults may place more weight on meaning and well-being. The trouble begins when these differences become personalised – interpreted as disrespect or rejection rather than simply a different lens.
This is precisely what Shivam Kumar describes when he writes about his internal conflict between the values I inherited and the life I want to live. The disagreement is not always a direct argument with his parents. It is a negotiation with himself, watching his parents make frugal choices, and then wondering whether his Sunday dinner with friends is a betrayal of their sacrifice.
For those in careers that deviate from the conventional path, the tension runs deeper. Priyadarshi Kumar points out that Indian parents often struggle to understand why someone would hpily prepare for the defence services and accept a much lower salary just to esce a corporate job they hate. To them, a high salary is not merely financial; it is proof of a life well-built. Rejecting it can feel like a rejection of everything they worked for.
Roy explains, Framing wellbeing and financial security as competing goals can create unnecessary conflict; they are not mutually exclusive.
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What a bridge might look like
The good news, say experts across disciplines, is that neither generation is wrong. They simply need better frameworks for the conversation and better frameworks for the money itself.
On the financial side, Krishna Patwari, founder and managing director of Wealth Wisdom India Pvt Ltd, offers a practical structure for young earners: allocate 10 per cent of income to direct equity for long-term wealth creation, 20 per cent to mutual funds for diversified growth, and 20 per cent to cash and emergency reserves – ideally building up to one year’s income. The remaining funds lifestyle, travel, and personal goals. This proach allows financial flexibility without compromising future security.
Adhil Shetty’s roadm is similarly grounded: build an emergency fund covering three to six months of expenses, get health insurance early, and start an investment habit as soon as possible. Save first, spend from what remains. For parents, he advises shifting from protection to preparation: Teaching younger family members how credit works, why starting early matters, and how to take sensible risks will do more than any lump sum.
Maulii Kulsreshtha, 25, a PR professional who has navigated these tensions herself, reveals, Over time, we understood each other’s perspectives better and found a balance between saving responsibly and enjoying experiences. What made that possible, she suggests, was a willingness on both sides to hold their own position without dismissing the other.
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That willingness, Roy argues, begins with how conversations are structured. The way money conversations hpen matters just as much – sometimes even more – than the actual topic being discussed, she says. A small shift in language can make a big difference. Speaking from personal concern rather than blame often creates more space for connection. ‘I worry about your future’ can feel very different from ‘You are making poor decisions.’ One opens a conversation; the other can feel like an attack.
For Prachi Kumari, 24, a PR account executive who has lived through these moments, the evolution was gradual and mutual. Her parents began to understand that experiences and mental well-being are not luxuries but necessities; she came to recognise that financial discipline is not their paranoia but their love, expressed in the only language they learned.
I think both perspectives are important, she says. Saving provides stability. But people need to experience meaningful things which help them learn and build confidence – and find hpiness in ways that cannot be evaluated through financial means.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute financial or investment advice. Individual financial situations vary, and readers are advised to consult a qualified financial planner, advisor, or mental health professional before making financial decisions.
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Expect you to bring food for them: The rise of friend bombing in offices
I have always believed in nurturing friendships. As an ambivert who takes time to pour her heart out, I have never viewed friendships as a numbers game. For me, it has always been about quality over quantity. Perhs that is why, whenever I meet new people, my instinct is to hold back a little. Not out of arrogance or distrust, but out of habit. I take my time to understand people before allowing them access to my emotional world.
It is, in fact, an organic process; even calling it a process feels too calculated. This is simply how I allow bonds to bloom: naturally, gradually, and without force. And isn’t friendship supposed to feel that way? Perhs not in today’s world.
Increasingly, people seem eager to fast-track emotional intimacy, not necessarily because they genuinely value connection, but because they enjoy the convenience and perks that come with friendship. They overwhelm you with generosity in the earliest stages of acquaintance, even while you are still trying to understand your comfort level with them. They go overboard, not to make you feel at home, but to burden you.
And the moment a connection feels like an obligation rather than a comfort, that is your cue to pause and reassess.
But how does one truly judge the stage of a friendship?
Healthy friendships feel unmeasured. Conversations flow without pressure, silences are comfortable, and there is no constant need to prove loyalty. On the other hand, when interactions begin to feel emotionally taxing, when plans start feeling like duties, when you find yourself avoiding meet-ups, or when words and actions constantly contradict each other, it may be time to reevaluate the bond.
The biggest red flag, however, is convenience disguised as closeness. Take a common workplace example. Someone gradually befriends you and begins showering you with unnecessary care and attention. They insist on paying for meals, expect you to bring food for them, get offended if they are excluded from your plans, and repeatedly invite you over to their house. On the surface, these gestures pear affectionate. Yet internally, you feel overwhelmed, almost pressured to match an emotional intensity you never agreed to.
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Still, many of us ignore our instincts because we do not want to pear ungrateful. We continue valuing their kindness, even when it begins to feel performative.
The turning point usually arrives when their words are tested against reality. Imagine someone pestering you for months to visit their home, only to make you feel unwelcome the moment you finally do. The warmth dispears. The hospitality vanishes. You feel less like a guest and more like an inconvenience. Suddenly, all those grand gestures begin to feel hollow.
The final nail in the coffin often comes during moments of emotional vulnerability. You open up about something deeply personal, hoping for comfort or empathy, only to realise they are emotionally absent. When confronted, their response is indifferent: Main kya bolun?
And in that moment, the illusion shatters. You realise the bond was never as deep as it peared. You were not valued; you were merely convenient. A backup plan. Someone to fill the empty spaces. The painful part is that your instincts probably sensed it from the very beginning. But like most people, you gave them the benefit of the doubt.
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You ignored the discomfort when they ordered food for you without asking, insisted on paying on your behalf, borrowed your belongings under the guise of friendship, or subtly imposed emotional expectations before trust had even formed. All the while, a small voice in your head kept asking: ‘Are we really that close as friends?’ These are the red flags we often overlook because we confuse familiarity with friendship.
The truth is that friendship should never feel forced. It should not demand emotional indebtedness. Real bonds are built slowly, through consistency, respect, and mutual emotional safety, not through pressure, guilt, or performative affection.
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From corporate spaces to college corridors
As PR professional Nupur Redkar points out, this dynamic is especially common in corporate spaces, where colleagues often claim friendship long before genuine closeness develops.
She recalls joining a company where she bonded with a group of female colleagues over lunch breaks and shared commutes. However, when one of her closest college friends later joined the same workplace through her reference, her priorities naturally shifted. She spent more time with her old friend, helping her settle into the new environment.
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One of my colleagues called me a hypocrite for this, Redkar says. She expected me to prioritise her over someone who had already been a part of my life for years. I had known these colleagues for only a few months, while my friend had been with me through significant phases of my life. Naturally, my priorities reflected that.
For Shambhavi Singh Sengar, who is currently on sabbatical, the experience was even more emotionally draining. I became a victim of friend bombing during my college days, she shares. Some people seemed extremely trustworthy at first, and I became deeply emotionally attached to them. But over time, they slowly sidelined me. The emotional fallout left her devastated.
I was naïve back then, she says. I cried, ologised, and kept wondering if I had done something wrong. I used to post stories celebrating these friendships because I genuinely believed I had found ‘my people.’ But eventually, I realised I was the only one emotionally invested.
The experience, she says, took a serious toll on her mental health. It took me a very long time to heal and accept that if I am constantly being sidelined somewhere, then maybe I simply do not belong there.
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According to Dr Pavitra Shankar, Associate Consultant in Psychiatry at Aakash Healthcare, Delhi, the rise of friend bombing reflects a larger emotional void many people are experiencing today.
People who engage in friend bombing often create intense emotional closeness very quickly through constant messaging, excessive praise, emotional dependence, and urgency, she explains. It may pear affectionate initially, but it can actually be an attempt to gain emotional control, validation, or quick access to someone’s vulnerabilities.
Dr Shankar notes that not everyone who exhibits such behaviour is consciously manipulative. In many cases, it stems from loneliness, insecurity, or a fear of rejection. The concern begins when affection becomes conditional, boundaries are repeatedly crossed, or guilt and pressure replace respect, she says.
Genuine friendship or convenience?
According to Dr Shankar, the answer lies in boundaries. Healthy friendships allow space for individuality, delayed responses, disagreements, and separate priorities. They are not threatened by distance or occasional absence. Trust develops naturally over time.
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Friend bombing, however, accelerates emotional intensity too quickly. Instead of making you feel emotionally safe, it makes you feel emotionally obligated.
One of the strongest indicators, Dr Shankar explains, is whether the relationship remains secure even after you say ‘no,’ take a step back, or assert a boundary. Genuine friendships survive space. Manipulative ones often collse under it.
Parallels between friend-bombing and love-bombing
Communication specialist Myron Braganza also draws parallels between friend-bombing and love-bombing. It started quietly, he recalls. There was no dramatic entry, just someone who became important very quickly. There were gifts, grand gestures, emotional urgency after fights, and constant reminders of our connection. At first, it felt flattering.
But over time, the intensity became suffocating. The same behaviour that initially felt comforting slowly began to feel overwhelming, he says. Every disagreement was followed by emotional flooding, messages, dramatic reconciliations, and attempts to pull me back in.
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Years later, when the same person repeared with the same pattern of intense affection, Braganza recognised the cycle instantly. What once felt like connection revealed itself as a pattern, intense, cyclical, and emotionally imbalanced, he reflects. This time, I chose to break the pattern.
Perhs that is the lesson many of us eventually learn the hard way. Some people offer warmth to create a sense of dependence. Others confuse attention with intimacy. And sometimes, the most important thing we can do for ourselves is trust the discomfort we feel long before the truth fully reveals itself. Because real friendship does not rush. It earns its place in your life, gently, consistently, and without making you feel burdened.
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Flying with diabetes: 5 crucial mistakes to avoid on your next flight
3 min readNew DelhiUpdated: May 23, 2026 09:47 AM IST
How can diabetics make their air travel more mindful? If Dr Vijay Negalur, HoD of diabetology at KIMS Hospitals, Thane, is to be believed, air travel disrupts routine. You may eat at odd hours, sleep poorly, move less, and consume more packaged or sugary foods than usual. Even mild dehydration during flights can make blood sugar fluctuate. Many people focus only on the destination and forget that the journey itself can stress the body metabolically, described Dr Negalur.
Skipping meals and then grabbing quick airport snacks loaded with sugar and refined carbs is a strict no-no. Pastries, sweetened coffee, packaged juices, and fast food can spike glucose ridly. It’s always smarter to carry balanced snacks like nuts, roasted chana, fruit, or a sandwich to avoid sudden hunger-driven choices, said Dr Negalur.
DISCLAIMER:This article is based on information from the public domain and/or the experts we spoke to. Always consult your health practitioner before starting any routine.
Does sitting for long hours during flights worsen sugar control?
Yes, stressed Dr Negalur, adding that sitting continuously slows circulation and reduces glucose utilisation by muscles. Even short walks inside the cabin every hour or simple ankle and calf movements while seated can help maintain better circulation and support sugar control, especially on long-haul flights, said Dr Negalur.
How important is hydration during air travel?
It is crucial for long-haul travel. Cabin air is extremely dry, which increases the risk of dehydration. When the body is dehydrated, blood sugar levels can become more concentrated and harder to regulate. Water should be the main beverage during travel. Sugary sodas, excessive caffeine, and alcohol can worsen dehydration further, mentioned Dr Negalur.
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Precautions to follow
Medicines, insulin, glucometers, and snacks should always stay in cabin baggage; never in check-in luggage. Delays, lost baggage, or temperature changes can create unnecessary risks. People travelling across time zones should also discuss insulin timing adjustments with their doctor beforehand, prised Dr Negalur.
What is the simplest advice diabetologists give diabetic travellers?
Do not pause diabetes care during vacations. Small habits like timely meals, movement, hydration and proper sleep often make the biggest difference during travel, said Dr Negalur.
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Less Attention, More Power: Why The Quiet Ones Are Winning In 2026
In a world increasingly saturated with noise and demands for constant visibility, a quiet revolution is underway. This article explores why a strategic retreat from the relentless battle for attention is not a weakness, but a profound source of power in 2026.
The Silent Shift in Power and Attention
Why being quiet is no longer a weakness in modern society
The conventional wisdom that visibility equates to influence is ridly eroding. In modern society, the ability to selectively engage and focus your attention has emerged as a significant strength, redefining how power is accrued and exercised. Being quiet now signifies strategic control.
The hidden cost of constant visibility and overstimulation
The relentless pursuit of constant visibility and engagement comes with a significant, often unacknowledged, hidden cost. Overstimulation from an always-on culture depletes our cognitive resources, fragments our thoughts, and diminishes our ability to sustain attention on one thing, ultimately hindering deep work and creative thinking.
Overview of how attention became the most valuable resource
In recent years, attention has unequivocally become the most valuable resource, surpassing even traditional currencies like time or money. The shift has been accelerated by the proliferation of digital platforms and the insatiable demand for user attention, making it the primary commodity in the new attention market.
The Attention Economy: Why Your Focus Is More Valuable Than Ever
What the attention economy really means in 2026
In 2026, the attention economy is a sophisticated framework where human attention is a highly sought-after commodity. It describes a system where businesses and digital platforms monetize our attentional cacities, viewing our finite focus as a resource to be ctured, traded, and utilized for various commercial ends.
How digital platforms compete to cture and monetize your attention
Digital platforms, from social media giants like TikTok to numerous newsletters and content sites, are in a fierce battle for attention, employing advanced algorithms and notification systems to constantly cture and monetize user attention. They design engaging dopamine loops to keep individuals scrolling, aiming to maximize the time spent on their services.
Why attention—not time or money—is the real currency today
Today, attention, not time or money, stands as the real currency because it is the prerequisite for almost all economic and social engagement. Without focused attention, the ability to learn, create, connect, or consume effectively diminishes, making it the foundational resource in modern life.
The Psychology Behind Less Attention = More Power
Understanding the scarcity principle and perceived value
The scarcity principle, a cornerstone of psychological influence, dictates that something becomes more valuable when it is less available. In a world of abundant digital noise, selective engagement and less attention can paradoxically elevate an individual’s perceived value and influence, making their contributions more impactful.
Dopamine, overstimulation, and why constant input weakens focus
Constant digital input and the associated dopamine hits from notifications and endless scrolling contribute to overstimulation, which fundamentally weakens our ability to focus. This perpetual state of attentional fragmentation, as highlighted by neuroscience researchers like Gloria Mark from the University of California, Irvine, shortens attention spans to an average of 47 seconds, hindering deep concentration.
How selective attention improves decision-making and clarity
By intentionally practicing selective attention, individuals can significantly improve their decision-making and achieve greater clarity. Filtering out irrelevant information and focusing your attention on one thing allows for more profound cognitive processing, leading to more thoughtful choices and a deeper understanding of complex issues, free from the distractions of ADHD-like symptoms induced by digital overload.
The Rise of the Quiet Ones: Who Are They?
Defining quiet power in the digital age
Quiet power in the digital age is defined not by silence, but by the strategic allocation of one’s finite attention. It’s an intentional departure from the frenetic pace of the attention economy, allowing individuals to reclaim control over their attentional resources and focus on high-value activities rather than succumbing to constant digital noise.
Traits of people who protect their attention and energy
Individuals who protect their attention and energy possess strong digital boundaries, practice selective engagement, and prioritize deep work over constant visibility. They understand that a shorter attention span is a liability in modern life, so they consciously avoid platforms like TikTok that fragment focus, instead choosing to sustain attention on one thing to achieve mastery.
Why introversion is no longer required for quiet influence
Quiet influence is no longer exclusive to introverts; it’s a strategic choice available to anyone who recognizes the value of their attention in the attention economy. By intentionally managing their digital footprint and resisting the urge to constantly scroll, individuals can cultivate a powerful presence that commands respect, regardless of their personality type.
Why Overexposure Is Losing Its Power
The downside of always being online and visible
The constant pressure to be always online and visible, fueled by the algorithms of social media platforms, ironically diminishes one’s overall impact. This perpetual overexposure leads to a fragmented sense of self and a diluted message, as individuals exhaust their ability to pay attention to what truly matters in the battle for attention.
Content fatigue and declining trust in constant creators
Content fatigue is a growing concern, as the sheer volume of information in the attention market overwhelms user attention, leading to declining trust in constant creators. When every individual and brand is an attention merchant vying for a piece of the pie, the value of each message lessens, causing widespread exhaustion and disengagement among audiences.
The shift from attention-seeking to value-driven presence
There’s a significant cultural shift from mere attention-seeking to cultivating a value-driven presence, especially among Gen Z. This new framework prioritizes genuine contribution and substance over performative visibility, recognizing that less attention strategically plied yields more profound and lasting influence in a world plagued by shortened attention spans.
Social Media Overload: The Hidden Driver of Attention Fatigue
How platforms like TikTok and Instagram train short attention spans
Social media platforms like TikTok and Instagram are meticulously designed with algorithms that prioritize endless scrolling, effectively training users to develop shorter attention spans. The rid-fire content delivery and constant novelty create a system where the ability to sustain attention on one thing becomes increasingly difficult, impacting cognitive function in modern life.
Infinite scrolling, dopamine loops, and mental exhaustion
The insidious combination of infinite scrolling and engineered dopamine loops on platforms accelerates mental exhaustion and contributes significantly to attention fatigue. This constant stimulation and the subsequent notification bombardment fragment our focus, preventing the deep concentration necessary for high-level thinking and leading to a pervasive sense of being overwhelmed, as highlighted by neuroscience.
Why stepping back creates a competitive mental advantage
In the relentless battle for attention, stepping back from constant social media engagement creates a profound competitive mental advantage. By consciously reducing digital input and reclaiming control over your attentional resources, you can foster a more robust ability to pay attention, enabling clearer thought and superior decision-making, differentiating you in the new attention economy.
Deep Focus vs Shallow Attention: The Real Competitive Edge
Insights from Deep Work on high-value concentration
Insights from concepts like Deep Work emphasize that high-value concentration is paramount in the attention economy. In an era where shortened attention spans are prevalent due to constant digital noise, the ability to focus your attention without distraction on cognitively demanding tasks is a competitive edge, fostering superior results.
How deep focus leads to creativity, productivity, and mastery
Deep focus is the direct pathway to enhanced creativity, sustained productivity, and ultimately, mastery in any field. By learning to sustain attention on one thing for extended periods, individuals can esce the fragmented nature of modern life, leading to innovative breakthroughs and a profound ability to solve complex problems, as opposed to simply scrolling.
Real-world examples of focused individuals outperforming distracted peers
Across various industries, real-world examples abound of focused individuals outperforming their distracted peers. From engineers at Ivy League institutions to successful entrepreneurs, those who intentionally reclaim their ability to pay attention and minimize the influence of platforms like TikTok demonstrate higher quality output and greater long-term success, illustrating the power of attentional discipline.
Less Attention, More Influence: The New Social Power Dynamic
Why being less available increases perceived value
In the new attention economy, being less available paradoxically increases an individual’s perceived value and influence. When human attention is a commodity, strategic scarcity makes your contributions more impactful, creating a framework where less attention directed outwards enhances your social cital, shifting from constant presence to deliberate engagement.
The psychology of mystery, boundaries, and selective engagement
The psychology of mystery, coupled with firm boundaries and selective engagement, forms the bedrock of this new social power dynamic. By not constantly battling for attention or being perpetually visible on social media platforms, individuals cultivate an aura of intrigue, making their occasional inputs more meaningful and respected, thus challenging the norms of continuous visibility.
From always present to strategically visible
The paradigm is shifting from an expectation of being always present to a more powerful stance of being strategically visible. This means intentionally choosing when and where to deploy your finite attention, ensuring that when you do engage, your message carries more weight and impacts user attention more profoundly, distinguishing you in the crowded attention market.
Digital Minimalism: The Lifestyle Behind Quiet Power
What digital minimalism looks like in everyday life
Digital minimalism in everyday life involves a conscious, intentional proach to technology use, carefully curating your digital environment to align with your values, not the demands of the attention economy. It means prioritizing deep work and meaningful interactions over the incessant pull to scroll or respond to every notification, reclaiming control over your attentional resources.
Reducing noise without disconnecting from opportunity
The essence of digital minimalism is reducing digital noise without disconnecting from genuine opportunity or essential connections. It’s about building a robust framework for managing user attention that allows you to engage with purpose, enabling high-value interactions while systematically filtering out the distractions that fragment your focus and accelerate attention fatigue.
Tools and habits for controlling your digital environment
Effective tools and habits for controlling your digital environment are crucial for fostering quiet power. This includes disabling non-essential notifications, scheduling specific times for digital engagement, utilizing website blockers, and practicing regular digital detoxes, all designed to help you sustain attention on one thing and avoid the pitfalls of shortened attention spans.
The Link Between Attention Control and Mental Health
How reducing input lowers anxiety and stress levels
Reducing constant digital input is directly linked to lowering anxiety and stress levels, as confirmed by neuroscience. The continuous battle for attention and the constant stream of information from social media platforms create a state of perpetual vigilance that overloads the cognitive system, whereas less attention to these inputs fosters mental calm and reduces the sensation of being overwhelmed.
The role of mindfulness and intentional living
Mindfulness and intentional living play a pivotal role in cultivating attention control and improving mental well-being in modern life. By consciously choosing where to focus your attention and embracing practices that promote present-moment awareness, individuals can counteract the detrimental effects of shortened attention spans and the attention economy’s demands, fostering greater clarity and peace.
Escing burnout culture through attention discipline
Escing burnout culture is increasingly achieved through rigorous attention discipline, allowing individuals to reclaim their time and energy from the incessant demands of the attention market. By strategically managing where their finite attention goes, individuals, particularly Gen Z, can avoid the constant overstimulation that contributes to exhaustion, focusing instead on sustainable practices that promote mental resilience and productivity.
Why Gen Z and Millennials Are Redefining Success
Moving away from hustle culture toward intentional living
Gen Z and Millennials are actively moving away from the relentless demands of hustle culture, embracing intentional living as a core principle. This shift acknowledges the hidden costs of constant engagement in the attention economy, as younger generations prioritize mental well-being and a balanced existence over the perpetual battle for attention, seeking to reclaim their finite attentional resources.
The rise of soft productivity and balanced ambition
The rise of soft productivity and balanced ambition signifies a profound cultural shift, particularly among Gen Z. This framework rejects the notion that productivity must be high-stress and all-consuming, instead promoting a sustainable proach to work and life that guards against fragmented attention and shortened attention spans often exacerbated by platforms like TikTok, ensuring a more deliberate use of human attention.
Cultural shifts influencing attention and lifestyle choices
Significant cultural shifts are influencing how attention is valued and how lifestyle choices are made in modern life. Increasingly, individuals are recognizing that the attention economy is devouring their cacity for deep engagement, leading them to consciously choose less attention to digital noise and more focus on personal growth, meaningful connections, and the ability to sustain attention on one thing.
Less Attention in Relationships: The Power of Emotional Boundaries
Why constant communication reduces value and presence
In relationships, constant communication can paradoxically reduce perceived value and genuine presence. When every moment is shared and every thought immediately conveyed via social media platforms, the finite attentional resources of both parties become fragmented, diminishing the depth of interaction and making it harder to truly focus your attention on the person in front of you.
Healthy detachment vs emotional unavailability
Understanding the distinction between healthy detachment and emotional unavailability is crucial in navigating relationships with less attention. Healthy detachment involves establishing boundaries that protect your attentional well-being and allow for personal space, enabling you to sustain attention more effectively when you are present, unlike the avoidant patterns of true emotional unavailability.
Building stronger connections through intentional attention
Building stronger, more meaningful connections is achieved through intentional attention, not constant availability. By strategically choosing when and how to engage, individuals can allocate their finite attention with greater purpose, fostering deeper bonds that are resilient against the noise of the attention economy and the pressures to always be digitally present.
Common Misconceptions About Being Quiet or Less Visible
Quiet does not mean passive or unambitious
A common misconception is that being quiet or strategically less visible equates to being passive or unambitious. In reality, quiet power is a deliberate, highly ambitious strategy in modern life. It involves reclaiming your attention from the relentless battle for attention to focus on high-impact goals, rather than allowing the attention economy to fragment your focus and diminish your influence.
Less attention does not equal isolation or disengagement
Embracing less attention in the digital sphere does not imply isolation or disengagement from the world. Instead, it represents a conscious choice to engage more selectively and deeply. By managing one’s finite attentional resources, individuals can foster more meaningful connections and contribute more effectively, free from the constant noise and shortened attention spans often associated with social media platforms.
The difference between avoidance and intentional focus
It is crucial to distinguish between avoidance and intentional focus when discussing less attention. Avoidance is a reactive retreat from challenges, whereas intentional focus is a proactive strategy to guard your human attention from distractions and cultivate the ability to sustain attention on one thing. This distinction is vital in the new attention economy, where managing your attentional resources is key to success.
How to Reclaim Your Attention in a Distracted World
Reclaiming your attention in a pervasively distracted world involves implementing a robust framework of digital boundaries and intentional habits. This means actively resisting the urge to endlessly scroll, critically evaluating the algorithms of platforms like TikTok that contribute to shortened attention spans, and consciously choosing to focus your attention on activities that align with your values, rather than succumbing to constant notification bombardment.
Final Thoughts: Why the Quiet Ones Are Truly Winning
The quiet ones are truly winning in 2026 because they understand the profound value of their finite attention in the new attention economy. By intentionally cultivating less attention to digital noise and redirecting their focus towards meaningful pursuits, they gain a significant competitive edge, demonstrating that true power lies not in constant visibility, but in the strategic and deliberate allocation of one’s most valuable resource.
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Aishwarya Rai Bachchans first look at Cannes took over 1500 hours of handwork
4 min readNew DelhiUpdated: May 22, 2026 10:46 PM IST
The wait is finally over! Aishwarya Rai Bachchan has made her first fashionable pearance at Cannes 2026. For the much-awaited pearance, the actor chose an Amit Aggarwal Luminara, a couture creation centred around the idea of light in motion.
According to a press note from the designer, the piece — which was developed over more than 1,500 hours of meticulous handwork — explores light not simply as illumination, but as energy, movement, and force; translated through sculptural construction and engineered craftsmanship.
Rendered in an abyss blue, the couture piece references cosmic depth and the infinite nature of light travelling through space. (PR handout)
Thousands of crystalline linear embellishments have been individually placed across the gown, held together through an intricate lattice-like structure that binds the crystal veins seamlessly across the body to create the effect of illuminated pathways moving across the body. Designed to interact dynamically with movement and light, the embroidery continuously refracts and transforms as the wearer moves, giving the garment an almost kinetic quality, the note read.
It further informed that the silhouette draws from biomimicry with structured wing-like extensions emerging from the shoulders, evoking movement and propulsion, while contouring the body with architectural sharpness. Rendered in an abyss blue, the couture piece references cosmic depth and the infinite nature of light travelling through space. Every surface of the garment has been constructed to respond to illumination, allowing the piece to visually evolve under different lighting conditions.
Aishwarya Rai Bachchan was spotted at the Mumbai airport last night, jetting off to the French Riviera to attend the closing ceremony of the 79th Cannes International Film Festival. With her daughter Aaradhya in tow, she was seen stepping out of her car in an all-black ensemble, a jewel-crusted blazer paired with straight black pants and matching heeled boots. Her mahogany, sleek hair and signature red lips kept her look minimal yet glam.
Next to her, Aaradhya looked cute in a black-and-white shirt paired with a black bomber jacket. She sported similar straightened sleek hair accessorised with a hair band, and carried a black-and-gold Chanel fl purse.
The Devdas actor, on the other hand, flaunted a Gucci Diana medium tote bag, an accessory defined by its bamboo handles and Double G hardware. Crafted from black leather, the bag is further accentuated by two coloured belt details, a playful reference to the bands used to keep handles in she. According to their official website, the tote currently retails for $4,490, roughly translating to Rs 431595.86 or 4.3 lakh.
Netizens expressed their excitement at the actor’s imminent journey to France, commenting underneath the video Aish heading for Cannes….relief 😍 to Finally Cannes now has charm.
Jacqueline at Cannes. (
Jacqueline and Mouni’s old Hollywood glam
Jacqueline Fernandez, already there at Cannes, co-chaired the Global Gift Foundation with Eva Longoria and María Bravo, an initiative that combines awareness with real action and long-term impact. For the occasion, she chose a bespoke Richard Quinn couture ensemble with a black and white tweed corset paired with a buttercream satin skirt. A large black and white rose accentuated her waist, while elbow-length black gloves gave her look a vintage old Hollywood glam. A top knot and pearl choker neckpiece completed the Housefull actor’s look.
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Mouni at Cannes. (
Mouni Roy was also clicked on the red carpet in a silver Caroline’s Couture strless bodycon gown, paired with a diamond necklace from Chopard and matching rings. A pulled back bun and dramatic smokey eyes added to her evening glam.
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