Gen Z is the generation born roughly between the late 90s and the early 2000s. I was born in 2005, which puts me in the middle of the Gen Z age range.
Given that Gen Z is still pretty young, we’re just learning what it means to be an adult living on our own in the world. Navigating this new chapter of life was probably scary for generations before us as well, but it feels like the stress of young adulthood has only gotten worse.
Even with the anxiety young people of any generation often have about adulthood, people in my mom’s generation often tell me how much Gen X loved their twenties. It was their time to go experience everything before the responsibilities of raising a family or handling a high-level job came into their lives. But this has changed in my generation. Many people in Gen Z don’t feel like they are enjoying their twenties much at all.
Gen Z has at least 9 reasons why they’re not enjoying their 20s much at all
1. The lack of jobs
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Finding a job has always been hard. When there are multiple great candidates for a position, your resume can get lost in the stack. This has been happening to many Gen Z on a regular basis, even if they are well-qualified and capable of handling the responsibility.
There are fewer jobs available in general right now. People who are consistently applying to jobs can still be unemployed months later. With fewer positions open, the competition has increased. More highly qualified people are out of a job and competing for roles. Sometimes I feel like you have to be insanely smart and unnaturally productive just to get a simple, low-paying job.
People have also already lost their jobs because the professional landscape is becoming increasingly digital. Take artists as an example. With AI-generated images, fewer artists are being hired to create concert posters and other graphic design work. As someone in Gen Z who wants to be a writer, I definitely worry about finding a job in the future.
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2. Financial insecurity
Universities have become so much more expensive now. If young adults want to earn their degree, many will have to take out a student loan to afford it. This has led some people in Gen Z to take on large amounts of debt before they even enter adulthood.
Inflation has also been on the rise, making just about everything more expensive. Even getting groceries can be a financial burden to some people. This means that Gen Z is facing financial insecurity as they struggle to afford basic necessities. When people have to save money for the things they need, they probably won’t have much left to pay back loans.
3. They are lonely
Social media has changed the way we connect to others. Some people see social media as a great thing for relationships. It lets you stay connected to your friends, even if they no longer live near you. These people might not realize all the harmful things digital connections have on our friendships.
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The first way it can harm you is through the friends you see every day. If you’re constantly on your phone talking to a friend or partner, you can lose touch with the people who are right in front of you. I had a long-distance boyfriend for three years, and I know my friends were often frustrated by that.
Many of the interactions Gen Z has with the friends they live near are online. While talking with your friends online can be nice, it doesn’t replace the importance of seeing friends in person. It can still make someone with a ton of online friends feel isolated. This has made many people in Gen Z feel lonely in their 20s.
4. They don’t feel passion for work
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People in Gen Z can earn money by blogging about their meals at cool restaurants or making funny videos with their friends. Some influencers do very well and make a good salary. Influencer culture has become pretty big in my generation, and not just because Gen Z wants to watch them. Some people also want to be them.
The exciting things influencers do to make money can make everyday jobs feel boring in comparison. They could also become frustrated with their job because they aren’t earning as much as influencers. Social media puts pressure on people to live extravagantly and post those experiences online. Without being able to afford those things, Gen Z workers might become even less satisfied with their company’s salary.
Some of those people then become dissatisfied with their jobs in general. They might question why they have to work so hard when influencers seem to live leisurely and make a lot of money doing it. It could cause them to lose the passion that inspired them to pursue that career in the first place.
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5. Every day feels the same as the day before
We’re constantly surprised by all the shocking things we see online. Gen Z has grown up with this, and many of our reactions to shocking things are dulled. We’ve come to expect them.
This can make some people feel like everything is mundane. Even the big moments pack less of a punch because the pace of exciting things happening around us stays consistent. When you add remote work into the mix, it can make this even worse. Working from home can keep you stuck in one place and make your days feel even more repetitive.
I work from home, so I understand the feeling of being glued to my bedroom desk. After work, I’m sometimes so tired that I stay home for the night, giving me fewer chances to have different experiences from what I’ve been having all day. The days can feel identical. I wake up, work, relax in bed, and then do it all over again the next day. The lack of variety and our already dulled excitement can make every day feel the same.
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6. They haven’t traveled
People often travel to learn more about the world and experience different cultures. However, travel can be expensive, and taking time off work to do so can be difficult. Because of this, many people don’t travel as often as they’d like.
In this digital age, you don’t even need to leave your home to connect to the rest of the world. For example, instead of buying a pricey plane ticket to visit Italy, you can watch a video or see a photo of its monuments, or read blogs to learn about Italian cuisine. You can even connect with Italians through social media and direct messaging. But this still doesn’t give you the benefits of a travel experience.
Because of financial insecurity and the ability to connect to the rest of the world on our phones, many people in Gen Z don’t feel like traveling is worth it. This takes away from the travel experiences many people have in their 20s, when they still have the freedom to do it. They lose the enjoyment of traveling and can feel unhappy as a result.
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7. AI is ruining things
When AI was first invented, people believed everything would change. For the most part, they were right. Just look at all the changes in our society that have already happened because of it. Because it’s so new, many people don’t understand how it works.
When something you don’t know much about starts to take over every area of your life, it can feel overwhelming. While we’ve already discussed its influence on Gen Z’s stress about the job market, it can also make some of us feel like we are always falling behind. Since AI is changing things so rapidly, we don’t know what AI will do in the future as it continues to develop.
The future feels so unstable that many members of Gen Z can feel defeated. They might fear that they will never be able to understand it since it’s constantly changing. AI-generated images are also becoming increasingly popular. Now, if I go on Pinterest, I can scroll through 20 pins before reaching a real image. It makes everything feel so fake and lifeless.
Some people in Gen Z feel like AI has taken the life out of certain things. It even makes art, the thing humans have enjoyed since they invented paint, feel stale and meaningless.
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8. They have mental health issues
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As I said before, social media has been making more people feel isolated and lonely. Still, there are many more mental health issues it can cause.
Social media has led some people to compare their appearance to that of others on social media. But because of photo editing, people can make themselves look better than they do in real life. People begin comparing themselves to unrealistic beauty standards, and sometimes it can make them feel insecure about their bodies. Some people’s mental health becomes so damaged by this that they can end up developing an eating disorder and fall into an even worse state of wellness.
There seem to be more kids and teens experiencing depression than in our parents’ generation. When I was in high school, I was one of those kids. After going through the healing process with therapists and psychiatrists, I was told that experiencing mental health issues as a kid makes you much more likely to experience them as an adult. Since many people in Gen Z faced mental health issues in childhood, they are feeling it again in their 20s.
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9. Dating is hard
Most of my friends are in their early twenties and frequently go on dates. Many of them are trying to find someone they want to spend the rest of their life with. Out of all of my friends, I would say only a handful of their dates came from someone they met in person.
Online dating eliminates the need to go out and meet someone. Many people in my generation exclusively use dating apps to find a girlfriend or boyfriend. This has led Gen Z to stop approaching people in person on a date because they can just find one online.
However, many of my friends report feeling exhausted with dating apps. There are so many people to choose from and talk to. If they try to connect with every person they match with, the interactions can become tiring. People might end up feeling apathetic when flirting with a potential date. If you get tired of dating apps and there isn’t anyone approaching you to ask for a date, it can be incredibly hard to get into a relationship.
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Lily Bell is a college student studying English and Publications who covers relationships, mental health, and personal narratives surrounding the human experience.

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In medicine, longevity isn’t just about staying alive for as long as possible. The goal is to maximize the number of years we live in good health and disease-free into older age — aka, our “healthspan.”
While society is obsessed with quick fixes like biohacking and peptides, increasing our healthspan often boils down to lifestyle choices. These include diet, sleep and physical activity.
You don’t need to spend hours in the gym every week to reap the benefits of exercise — which include a lower risk of heart disease, improved mobility and weight management, among others.
Dr. Jordan Metzl, a sports medicine physician at the Hospital for Special Surgery, previously spoke to TODAY.com about longevity-boosting lifestyle habits to incorporate into your routine.
Here’s how many days a week you should move your body in order to increase your healthspan:
Longevity Tip of The Day: Move Your Body Every Day, 7 Days a Week, to Boost Longevity
Moving your body every day is an incredibly important habit to boost longevity, Metzl tells TODAY.com.
“It’s the number one thing. Activity, activity, activity … daily,” says Metzl, who authored “Push: Unlock the Science of Fitness Motivation to Embrace Health and Longevity.”
Movement can be anything that gets you to exert more effort or move your body around more than usual. Whether it’s walking, dancing, taking the stairs or cleaning your home.
“We have increasing evidence that even just two minutes a day of vigorous physical activity, independent of exercise, is valuable for extending longevity,” Metzl says.
Simply dialing up the intensity during everyday activities can have an impact. “As long as it gets you huffing and puffing,” Metzl adds. This is referred to as non-exercise activity thermogenesis, or NEAT.
Why It Matters
Humans are living increasingly sedentary lives, per the World Health Organization. From riding in cars to working at computers and staring at screens, we’re spending less time on our feet.
Sedentary behavior is associated with an increased risk of chronic diseases and even premature death.
Daily movement is an effective way to combat these negative effects and boost longevity, and it’s also easy to incorporate into your existing routine, Metzl notes. It’s approachable for people who’ve been sedentary for a long time, and doable for those who don’t have enough time or energy for a workout.
Anything that gets your muscles activated, increases your heart rate and gets you breathing faster counts, says Metzl.
Daily movement isn’t glamorous. However, it’s sustainable — and the small choices we make every day add up over time.
Compared to trendy longevity supplements or unapproved peptides, moving your body is extremely low-risk. “It’s free and it’s safe,” says Metzl.
How To Get Started
First, try to commit to moving daily by setting reminders and alarms, and keep a log of your movements to track your progress.
Try these quick bursts of activity to get started:
Walking for 5-10 minutes
10-minute exercise “snacks”
5-minute stretch routines
Full-body warmup
10 squats
Examples of NEAT activities include:
Taking the stairs instead of the elevator
Parking farther away than usual
Folding laundry standing up
Carrying a heavy package or groceries
Hand-washing your dishes
Standing up while taking phone calls

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Washcloths or loofahs are commonplace items in bathrooms, hotels and even gyms. They can help you feel like you’re getting a deep clean and can easily spread soap suds all over your body.
But dermatologists told HuffPost that washcloths and loofahs aren’t actually that necessary, or even the best way to get clean.
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“I think most dermatologists would favor washing with the hand over, say, washcloth versus say loofah, just as an across-the-board recommendation,” said Dr. Lauren Taglia, a dermatologist with Northwestern Medicine Regional Medical Group in Illinois.
Dr. Katie Lynam, an assistant professor of dermatology at the Medical University of South Carolina, agreed that she recommends cleaning yourself with your hands over other methods, but said there isn’t a totally right or totally wrong way to clean your body, either.
Why is that? Here’s what to know.
For most people, your hands are the best and safest way to clean your body in the shower.
Your hands tend to give the best pressure when it comes to washing your body with either a bar or liquid soap, according to Taglia.
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More, “if the [hands have] been cleansed prior to washing the body, we know that it’s less likely to transfer, say, bacteria or other potential infection,” Taglia said.
For people with sensitive skin, washing your body with your hands can protect the skin barrier, Lynam noted. “Whereas using things like a washcloth or a loofah can disrupt the skin barrier by essentially over exfoliating and starting to disrupt this barrier called the stratum corneum that keeps pathogens and dirt and things out of the inside of our skin, and also holds good things like water in.”
Since loofahs are rarely washed, they can also harbor bacteria. “So that can be more of a concern for infection, and that’s especially the case in anybody that has a compromised skin barrier,” said Taglia, who identified herself as someone with eczema.
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“We worry about infection risk with loofahs, and same thing for people who are more breakout- or acne-prone or prone to cysts or boils … if you’re not washing [the loofah] between each and every wash, then we recommend that you don’t use it,” Taglia added.
“For most of my patients that I treat for eczema, psoriasis, patients with sensitive skin, more mature skin, and then infants as well, I’m recommending just cleansing with the hands,” Lynam said.
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A washcloth can be a good option, but not for everyday use.
“There are some circumstances where I do think that a washcloth can be helpful,” Lynam said. “Particularly if you’re dealing with really stuck-on dirt, grime.”
Washcloths provide a “mild exfoliation,” added Taglia, which can help get rid of dead skin cells that can build up. Dead skin cells can appear as roughness or small bumps. If you notice your skin feels rough or bumpy, a washcloth could provide the exfoliation you need.
To protect your skin barrier, you don’t want to use a washcloth every time you shower, though.
You can also use products such as glycolic, lactic or salicylic acid to exfoliate, according to Lynam. These are chemical exfoliants and should only be used once or twice a week.
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But you might want to avoid those fancy body scrubs. “I usually don’t recommend using physical exfoliants, like a scrub, things with beads or a grit in them. Those disrupt the skin barrier,” Lynam noted.
And “if you are going to use a washcloth, I do recommend that it be washed at least once a week. Some experts even recommend daily washing,” Lynam said.
Taglia is one of the experts who recommends that folks wash their washcloths after each use. If you don’t wash it every time, you need to make sure you store it properly.
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“It needs to be hung to dry, not just balled up in the corner of the shower. Otherwise, it can grow bacteria and actually put you at more risk for developing an infection than washing with your hands would,” Lynam added.
In the end, you don’t need to turn to washcloths or loofahs to get a good clean, even if washing your body with your hands feels like a shortcut or something you only do when you’re in a vacation rental. Just as washing your hands with soap and water can get them totally clean, washing your body with your hands can do the same.
“You can usually get an adequate clean from our day-to-day with your hands,” Lynam said.

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Kirsten Jackson, known as “The IBS Dietitian,” has seen a common trend: People not paying enough attention to their gastrointestinal concerns — and the scary ramifications that can have.
“On numerous occasions, people have self-diagnosed as IBS and skipped over seeing their [doctor] for routine testing, which means they could have missed a [cancer] diagnosis,” she said. “The other thing I am routinely hearing is that people suffer with symptoms for months before seeking help, which is the difference between getting life-saving treatment and a terminal diagnosis if they were to have a cancer diagnosis.”
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Mistaking bowel or colorectal cancer for IBS is especially easy since a person can have both conditions. Jackson recalled working with a client who thought their symptoms were just “down to their usual IBS they had had for years.” The patient was later diagnosed with colorectal cancer.
Dr. Andrew Dam, a gastroenterologist at Pomona Valley Hospital Medical Center, has seen similar situations in which patients (and even medical providers) attribute new gastrointestinal symptoms to stress. Attributing serious symptoms to benign conditions is “one of the most concerning patterns” he sees in his practice.
Dr. Dianne Pearre has witnessed this, too, especially in young and otherwise healthy patients. “Almost all of them wished they had sought medical attention sooner,” said the board-certified gynecologic oncologist at The Roy and Patricia Disney Family Cancer Center at Providence Saint Joseph Medical Center in Burbank, California.
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Statistics back these concerns up further: One in three adults can’t name a single symptom of bowel cancer, even though almost 1.5 million people in the U.S. live with it.
To help other people avoid this, and to encourage them to get treatment before the cancer worsens, medical providers share commonly missed signs of bowel cancer, what they’re often mistaken as and when to see a doctor.
Unexplained Weight Loss
While diet culture praises weight loss regardless of the cause, it’s not inherently “good” or benign. “People presume they are stressed or not eating enough,” Jackson said. “They overlook it until it becomes quite drastic.”
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In fact, unexplained weight loss can be a sign of cancer. Jackson explained that when a person has cancer, their metabolism increases significantly, which can explain the otherwise unexplained weight loss.
Dam mentioned this sign, too, saying it’s often mistaken for stress, diet or aging. He added it’s often the first or an earlier symptom.
“Patients, and sometimes clinicians, may not connect mild weight loss with GI disease, especially if appetite seems normal,” he said. “This is significant because cancer can cause systemic metabolic changes leading to weight loss, even before severe GI symptoms appear.”
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He encouraged seeking medical evaluation if you lose more than five to 10 pounds without trying, or if the weight loss is accompanied by fatigue, anemia or bowel changes.
Black Or Dark Stools
Darker poops aren’t necessarily “just from something you ate.”
“Black stools can be a sign of blood from higher up in the gut,” Jackson said.
The stool may not even look totally black. According to Pearre, “dark stools” are a common sign of colorectal cancer that are often missed or misattributed.
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Rectal Bleeding
This symptom can be mistaken for hemorrhoids, especially if the blood is bright red and the patient is younger. While hemorrhoids are common, Dam said, rectal bleeding is also a “classic symptom” of colorectal cancer and “always warrants evaluation,” especially if it’s persistent.
“Patients should see a doctor if the bleeding lasts more than one to two weeks, the blood is mixed within the stool (not just on toilet paper) or if the bleeding is associated with fatigue or anemia,” he said.
To keep it simple, consider rectal bleeding a concern, period.
“If you do experience rectal bleeding, regardless of whether it is bright red or dark, slow or brisk, let your doctor know,” Pearre said. “A quick exam and trial of medical management can determine whether it actually is from hemorrhoids or whether further investigation, such as a colonoscopy, is needed. Even if it isn’t due to cancer treatment, [knowing] the cause of bleeding is necessary.”
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Gastrointestinal Changes
Constipation and diarrhea are two scarily common symptoms that can also indicate a person has bowel cancer, especially if the symptoms are new.
“IBS is very common, and symptoms like constipation, diarrhea or alternating patterns overlap heavily with early colorectal cancer,” Dam said. “In colorectal cancer, a tumor can physically alter how stool passes through the colon, leading to new or progressively worsening bowel habit changes.”
You may also experience these “gastrointestinal changes” as unexplained, persistent bloating or pain, Pearre added.
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If you experience bowel habit changes after age 45, if the change persists longer than four to six weeks or if you notice a narrowing of stools or incomplete evacuation, Dam urged you to seek medical evaluation.
Pearre agreed. “Appropriate management and timely follow-up for unexplained constipation, diarrhea or bloating can also get you to a colonoscopy and catch cancer promptly,” she said.
Overnight Symptoms
Did your gastrointestinal issues come on suddenly? That’s another commonly missed sign. In other words, bowel cancer isn’t just about symptoms, but the timing of them, too.
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“This indicates there is some inflammatory disease process going on because IBS is typically driven by the gut-brain axis, and those symptoms do not appear overnight,” Jackson explained.
To be clear, it doesn’t automatically indicate cancer. “Sometimes, overnight symptoms can also indicate other conditions, like bile acid diarrhea or IBD,” she clarified. It’s still worth getting checked out, though.
Remember: No one wants to think they (or a loved one) would ever get cancer. Denial and even self-gaslighting are normal, but don’t let them negatively affect your health.
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